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Shabbat Rituals  

Setting the Table

The Shabbat table should be set with at least two candles (representing the dual commandments to remember and observe the Shabbat), a glass of wine, and a loaf of challah. The challah loaf should be whole, and should be covered with a bread cover, towel or napkin.

Lighting Candles

At least two candles should be lit, representing the dual commandments to remember and to keep Shabbat. The candles are lit by the woman of the household. After lighting, she waves her hands over the candles, welcoming in Shabbat. Then she covers her eyes, so as not to see the candles before reciting the blessing, and recites the blessing. The hands are then removed from the eyes, and she looks at the candles, completing the mitzvah of lighting the candles.

 
 
  

Barukh atah Adonai, Elohaynu,
melekh ha-olam
,
asher kid’shanu b’mitzvotav,
v’tzivanu l’had’lik neir
shel shabbat (Amein)

Blessed are You, Lord, our God, King of the Universe,
who sanctifies us with his commandments, and commands us
to light the candles of Shabbat (Amen)

Blessing for the Children

Before dinner, it is customary for parents to bless their children. Traditionally, they lightly place their hands on the child's head while reciting the following blessing:

For Sons:

 

Y'simcha elohim k'efrayim v'chim'nasheh

For Daughters:

 Y'simcha elohim ksarah rivkah rahel v'lei'ah

For all children:

 

Y'varech'cha adonai v'yishm'recha
Ya'eir adonai panav eilecha vihuneka
Yisa adonai panav eilecha v'yaseim l'cha shalom

Kiddush

Kiddush is recited while holding a cup of wine or other liquid.
 
Vay’hiy erev vay’hiy voqeir yom ha-shishiy
Vay’khulu ha-shamayim v’ha-aretz v’khol tzva’am
Vay’khal Elohiym ba-yom ha-shviyiy melakhto asher asah
vayishbot ba-yom ha-shviyiy mikhol melakhto asher ashah
Vayivarekh Elohiym et yom ha-shviyiy vayiqadeish oto
kiy vo shavat mikhol melakhto asher bara Elohiym la’asot
Barukh atah Adonai Elohaynu melekh ha-olam, borei p’riy ha-gafen. (Amein)
Barukh atah Adonai Elohaynu melekh ha-olam
asher qid’shanu b’mitzvotayv v’ratzah vanu
v’shabat qadsho b’ahavah u’v’ratzon hinchilanu, zikaron l’ma’aseh v’reishit

Kiy hu yom t’chilah l’miqra’ey qodesh, zeikher liytziyat mitzrayim
Kiy vanu vacharta v’otanu qidashta mikol ha’amiym
v’shabat qadsh’kha b’ahavah u’v’ratzon hin’chal’tanu
Barukh atah Adonai, m’qadesh ha-shabat. (Amein)
And there was evening and there was morning, a sixth day
The heavens and the earth were finished, the whole host of them
And on the seventh day God ended his work which he had made
and he rested on the seventh day from all his work which he had made
And God blessed the seventh day, and sanctified it
because in it he had rested from all his work which God created and done
Blessed are You, Lord, our God, King of the Universe, who creates the fruit of the vine. (Amen)
Blessed are You, Lord, our God, King of the Universe
who sanctifies us with his commandments, and has been pleased with us
You have lovingly and willingly given us Your holy shabbat as an inheritance, in memory of creation
The shabbat is the first among our holy days, and a remembrance of our exodus from Egypt
Indeed, You have chosen us and made us holy among all peoples
and have willingly and lovingly given us Your holy shabbat for an inheritance
Blessed are You, who sanctifies the shabbat (Amen)

Washing Hands

After Kiddush and before the meal, each person in the household should wash hands by filling a cup with water and pouring it over the top and bottom of the right hand and then the left hand. Before wiping the hands dry on a towel, the following blessing should be recited.
 
Barukh atah Adonai, Elohaynu, melekh ha-olam,
Blessed are You, Lord, our God, King of the Universe,
 
asher kid’shanu b’mitzvotav, v’tzivanu al n'tilat yadayim
who sanctifies us with his commandments, and commands us concerning washing of hands.

Ha-Motzi

Immediately after washing hands and before eating, the head of the household should remove the cover from the challah loaf, and recite the following blessing. The challah is then ripped into pieces or sliced and passed around the table, so that each person may have a piece. The family meal may then begin.
 
Barukh atah Adonai Elohaynu melekh ha-olam
Blessed are You, Lord, our God, King of the Universe
 
ha-motzi lechem min ha-aretz. (Amein)
who brings forth bread from the earth. (Amen)


Source: Judaism 101 and Cardin, Rabbi Nina Beth. The Tapestry of Jewish Time. NJ: Behrman House, 2000.


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